Please don’t tell me to get off of it, I have old Livejournal friends to keep in touch with and that’s why I’m there.

  • RaivoKulli@sopuli.xyz
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    2
    ·
    edit-2
    11 days ago

    When you’re talking about other people you sorta don’t need to keep repeating the fact. And you were talking about some third party (“they”).

    And no, you can’t just decide what’s normal to someone else. I can’t decide it’s not normal to go to sauna in Finland, even if I so furiously disagreed with that.

    • MudMan@fedia.io
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      1
      arrow-down
      1
      ·
      10 days ago

      You absolutely can decide whether something someone else does is “normal” and do all the time. “I can’t believe how often people in Finland go to the sauna, man, it’s just not normal” is a perfectly acceptable statement nobody would have an issue with unless they were deliberately pretending to misunderstand it to be obnoxious and trolly on the Internet.

      • RaivoKulli@sopuli.xyz
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        2
        ·
        10 days ago

        You can find it abnormal but it still is normal to Finns. It doesn’t change the actual reality. That’s just what it means.

        • MudMan@fedia.io
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          1
          arrow-down
          1
          ·
          10 days ago

          You can caveat it with their perspective all you want, that’s an aditional statement that has nothing to do with the original perfectly valid, perfectly understandable statement that you understood.

            • MudMan@fedia.io
              link
              fedilink
              arrow-up
              1
              arrow-down
              1
              ·
              10 days ago

              Finns and Americans are both “they”. Everybody who isn’t you or me is they.

              Keep it up, we’ll descend all the way down to pure formal logic this way. Breaking new frontiers of semiotics, I tell you.

              • RaivoKulli@sopuli.xyz
                link
                fedilink
                arrow-up
                2
                ·
                10 days ago

                It’s normal for both Americans and Finns. But that’s kinda duh, you spoke about they who find it normal so of course they would be people who find it normal.

                • MudMan@fedia.io
                  link
                  fedilink
                  arrow-up
                  1
                  arrow-down
                  1
                  ·
                  10 days ago

                  That is not a sentence.

                  I mean, I know what you’re saying because… you know, but if we’re going to do this dick measuring thing you’re going to at least have to approximate language.