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Cake day: July 4th, 2023

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  • Would you be ready to mold the relationship on the spot, which you have seen as a platonic friendship from the get-go?

    I’m not a relationship expert so I can only give a response based on my own subjective feelings and opinions.

    I’d say that you’d probably be able to tell pretty easily if a friend would be a suitable partner if you’ve spent a decent amount of time around them. It might be a bit of an uncomfortable conversation to turn them down, but good friends should have healthy communication and a discussion about why the interest isn’t mutual would probably go over well. If you just say no and provide no context as to why, that would likely end badly.

    would you be able to say that they were always was your crush?

    I did exactly this with my wife. We initially became friends because she was one of my roommate’s girlfriend like 15 years ago. We had a strictly platonic relationship for about 10 years, but I was crushin hard after 5.

    Turns out that so was she.


  • Ok, obviously people being attracted to you is a huge plus but there are plenty of average and even below average dudes out there with amazing women. Why?

    Because they’re typically genuinely nice, caring dudes that don’t treat women like some mountain to be summited.

    You want to know how to have enjoyable relationships with women? Maybe try actually being friends with a woman; no ulterior motives. Just find a friend and nurture that friendship. It’s incredibly easy to be around women when you don’t tack a bunch of sexual bullshit onto every situation involving them.

    Inevitably, you’ll either find a suitable partner organically or you’ll be introduced to someone that meshes well with you.

    Women make up 50% of the population. If you can’t have a normal interaction or a friendship with them, that’s a problem that requires you to look inward to resolve.