

My coworkers and were discussing this early today, as it happens. It started with one person claiming that you’re not yourself when you’re drunk; then another posited that you’re the most yourself when you’re drunk because your pretenses and masking behaviors are neglected. I personally said that I thought neither was true but since I’m a known contrarian no one took me seriously, so I’m glad you asked here.
If you have social anxiety, that’s the bottleneck here.
Don’t stress about the apps. I’m an attractive guy, almost always in a relationship, and in any of the times I was single, I never got a date through a dating site.