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Cake day: August 5th, 2023

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  • TwoBeeSan@lemmy.worldtomemes@lemmy.worldFinally!
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    3 days ago

    I always have my movie gun for this reason.

    She needs to know that any modicum of time not controlled by me will be met with the movie gun. You don’t even have to use it most of the time. Because of the implication.

    You guys should try it. It makes our time together so much less eggshelly than before.


  • TwoBeeSan@lemmy.worldtoLemmy Shitpost@lemmy.worldmentoring
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    3 days ago

    Very well said.

    literally grew up in prime misogyny zone.

    Listening to old Opie and Anthony clips where they called women holes. Was my 11 to 16 background noise.

    You are right. My experience of what prevented me from deep ending:

    Empathy. Empathy. Empathy.

    I remember the look on my first girlfriends face when I was such a piece of shit to her. I was an asshole.

    That internalized guilt feeling of hurting another person made me change.

    Dated a man, saw the amount of trauma men can put vulnerable people in.

    Allowing your worldview to change with new evidence. Admitting fault. All increibly valuable. But the act of putting yourself in someone else’s shoes and really understanding it, or at least wanting to, cannot be beat.

    I’m scared for the algorithm generation. I was and to an extent still am terminally online, but your interests being weaponinzed against you is another beast completely. Being too young to know you’re being pigeon holed into hate

    Happy to have changed. Love is the thing












  • TwoBeeSan@lemmy.worldtoMemes@sopuli.xyzI'm intrigued
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    9 days ago

    I do love some thigh food. The nectar of the gods.

    I also love how he does the red flag ass version of this. He must be right. Not like playing mental games is ever great, but nothing more nail on the head than a Republican looking for subservience and weak will.




  • Yes.

    Tumblr is the crucible in which the furries were spawned. When you think about it Tumblr was the 4chan for women/people who write fan fiction. Wild West vibe.

    When Pixar animated that lion on its back with fuck me eyes its been downhill since. They employed the people who humped their stuffed animals and werent told to stop.

    Jokes aside I like seeing the different groups that share the similarity of being irritated by centrally controlled forums/ privacy on Lemmy. My kind of weirdos (for the most part)