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Cake day: November 6th, 2023

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  • You can be child-free and still be married. Anyway.

    A wise thing to do is for men to have their own “Tea” type of app to balance things out. I see no reason not to.

    This would probably be an equal breach of privacy for less gain.

    Female Tea (if used properly) is about protecting women from being abused.

    Male Tea would probably be more about flagging girls that want expensive dates and don’t put out.

    Like, sure, go ahead. Have a male Tea app. But the stakes are not the same.














  • “This”

    Not your post, but anything that’s just an upvote in the form of a comment.

    Also anything that’s egregious misinformation or bad faith posting.

    Or anything that’s just spammy or bonkers crazy. I’ve blocked more people in my 1-ish year on Lemmy than I had in something like 10 years on Reddit…it definitely feels like Lemmy is the haven for Reddit refugees, including those who got banned for not really understanding how to engage in this type of space.

    Also, any post that really doesn’t fit the community. Like NoStupidQuestions posts that aren’t questions or are really just AITA or DAE (social validation) posts in disguise.

    I know that sounds like a lot, but for the most part, I don’t vote on things. I upvote most posts that are cool/interesting enough to get me to go to the source or read through the comments, as well as any good comments. And pretty much any comment that engages in discussion with my own comments without being annoying or rude, lol