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Cake day: October 30th, 2023

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  • Or set the public instance to public discussion about women’s stuff and set up a private instance with a women’s only application process that is advertised on the public instance.

    There’s value in women’s only spaces, and there’s value in spaces for fathers, husbands, brothers, boyfriends, and sons to ask about women’s stuff. By arranging the communities as described they can keep discoverability, exclusivity, AND can stop getting forbidden comments from the public on their public forum.



  • Is this about the public community, Women’s stuff, federated on the public fediverse who’s posts get aggregated to the public all feed and which is accessed by a diverse set of software solutions that may or may not force the community rules to be visible before viewing post content?

    I try not to engage cause I know about the community, but golly, I can’t imagine how a man might stumble upon that and interact.


  • My family always told me that I’d grow more conservative and want a family of my own as I grow older.

    As I aged I went from ambivalence toward politics and kids to decidedly anti-conservative and anti-kid.

    You know your own feelings on the matter more than your family does, and letting your family dictate how you live your life will lead to resentment and misery.


  • Relying on a small child to stay on the ground in order to not accidentally kill themselves is a great way to end up with a dead kid.

    Furniture should be anchored to a wall, guns locked in safes with the safety enabled and ammo removed, drugs in child resistant packaging locked in a cabinet, drawers and cabinets secured, etc.

    Kids climb stuff, get into things, find things they shouldn’t, AND they emulate what they see their parents do. Putting something out of reach is nowhere near secure enough.