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Cake day: October 3rd, 2024

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  • yeah so I don’t change my pfp like ever lol

    In like 4 years I’ve had 2 pfps, one from when someone drew my (female) Minecraft skin and only changed it when my family got my socials to a drawing of a frog I saw on twitter (I was closeted at the time).

    When I came out as trans I changed my pfp BACK to the one of my Minecraft skin and ~10 months later the friend who drew it over 4 YEARS ago finally logged back into the old ass Minecraft server discord and saw I still had it as my pfp.

    great timing on this post lol


  • The researchers propose to measure affect in terms of how easily you get aroused when faced with a sexual stimulus or situation. Likewise, behavior involves the frequency of sexual acts. And finally, cognition has to do with how often you think about sex.

    that’s actually really interesting that there’s different categories of sex drives


  • TriflingToad@sh.itjust.workstoLemmy Shitpost@lemmy.worldHorny🧠
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    i was talking about having a dick vs not, specifically because of having to deal with a boner during the day…

    Actually this is really good place to share the knowledge I’m too embarrassed to share irl!!

    I’m trans (MTF) and it doesn’t really happen randomly the same way it did before hormones. The only time I get an erection is when I try to, and even then sometimes it’s difficult 🥲.

    You are essentially required* to masturbate 1 or 2 times a week or else the tissue will disintegrate due to not being used, ‘morning wood’ is what the body does naturally to stop this but on Estrogen it doesn’t happen. Some choose to apply testosterone gel to help in this, but it hasn’t been an issue for me.

    Also with decreased labido it’s really easy to forget about it and apparently hurts when you do it again which I’m kinda scared of tbh.

    *‘required’ is subjective, but it’s not really reversible and also a working penis is ideal for getting bottom surgery and most people want to have good chances for bottom surgery …also sex too lol





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    it’s not exactly the same as a full understanding but my transmasc friends labido in the first year of T was much worse than my first year of E (so far atleast).

    The labido of a teenage boy is fucking INTENSE, all they do is think with their dick (well not in my friends case lol). However my emotion regulation is WAYYYY worse than his was, I am a blob of emotionally distraught tears.

    neither of us would get off HRT for the world though.