Just here for the facts

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Cake day: August 13th, 2023

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  • I definitely have friends like this. I have some family like this. We are good no matter how much time between communications.

    I also have some family that put zero effort in and maybe they’d show up if I needed them. But given that after one text, they haven’t checked in at all after my Dad died unexpectedly 7 months ago…

    They still have each other and both parents. I’m not going to be the one comforting them.

    So I’m not actually sure they’d show up even if I asked.

    Luckily, I have people who have checked in on me without me having to reach out first.


  • As someone who has link tracking in our business, yes, some of the stuff after the ? isn’t nefarious tracking, like the utm mentioned above.

    All the “list-unsubscribe” options you may have noticed starting about a year ago, are actually required to be there for any company that sends out any kind of email newsletter over a certain threshold. (Lists around 5k or more)

    If the unsubscribe links aren’t there, with the required url-encoded parameters (along with some other requirements with DNS) the email will not be delivered to any of the majors (google, yahoo/aol, hotmail, big ISPs) and we get blocked.

    The unsubscribe parameters are being tracked, yes, but we have to have them so we can unsubscribe you “in one click” We are not allowed to require you to sign in to unsubscribe you. (Not that we ever did that, but now there must be a one-click option.)

    (We used to just be two clicks to unsubscribe off an encoded link. Click -> this you? If yes, click -> you are now unsubscribed. Or sign-in and manage subscriptions without an encoded link.)

    Again, the point is that not all url encoded tracking is nefarious. Some of it is now required to try and minimize spam and nefarious emails.

    Source: https://craft.postmark-testing.com/blog/2024-gmail-yahoo-email-requirements










  • PNW clouds@infosec.pubtoMemes@sopuli.xyzI'm intrigued
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    11 days ago

    I remember reading Ron DeSantis (governor of Florida) said he did this on dates. He would say Thigh Food for Thai food. If they corrected him he wouldn’t date them again.

    He’s married now and I wonder if his wife ever offers to pick up Thigh food for dinner.


  • I don’t see it as a way to justify inaction. I see it as a way to be forgiving of myself if I mess up sometimes.

    Example: in the worst of my grief, I threw away some recyclables because I just couldn’t wash them out properly. It took everything just to eat.

    I didn’t pile guilt on myself over it. I recycle 99% of the time, I never litter. I have to check my pockets for random trash before doing laundry.

    Utility companies, corporations, and rich people are not cleaning up after themselves and their inaction almost negates everything me and everyone I personally know can possibly do.

    Knowing they are dumping faster than I can shovel doesn’t mean I stop shoveling. I still want and actively work to leave this place better than I found it.

    Those 91 jets just mean I don’t feel overwhelming guilt when I fail. I just try to do better next time.


  • Anything ginger (ginger ale, ginger beer, spicy, not spicy) as long as it’s fizzy. Not all the time, these are treats.

    Most root beer. A&W is solid. There’s one I don’t like with perfume undertones.

    We make our own seltzer and it’s my favorite. But any ice cold seltzers will do.

    If I’m in a restaurant and craving soda, I get a coke or diet coke.

    In the US South, an ice cold Cheerwine made with cane sugar in a glass bottle.



  • PNW clouds@infosec.pubtoScience Memes@mander.xyzDik Piks
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    16 days ago

    As long as he was accepting the no’s gracefully, and wasn’t an asshole to any of them… Then yeah, that’s a pretty honest way to play the numbers game and find someone who is also dtf.

    And this was at a frat party… not work or church… so appropriate time and place as well

    Did he ever settle down?