I feel like there is a difference between finding someone attractive enough to entertain the idea of having sex with them and starting/maintaining a friendship for the sole purpose of keeping open the possibility of sex in the future when they can exploit a vulnerability. If a friend treats everyone of his/her friends roughly equal, I see no harm. However, „friends“ that bend over backwards, get overly touchy and so on with the people in a committed relationship they wanna bang and not with people they don’t, I see a problem. Worst case yet that i encountered was a „friend“ that mimicked mannerisms, hobbies and appearances of the partner that „stood in his way“. That’s just plain creepy.

And that’s why I just cut contact with all people in my life every time I get a partner, to be respectful. Haven’t talked to my grandpa in years but what can you do?

Im sorry if its misogynistic but I dont really want a woman nobody else wants to fuck.

Like… if the consensus is “Naaaaaah” theres probably a really good reason.

“Do you wanna fuck her?”

“How many times do I have to explain what pansexuality is? I wanna fuck everyone, everywhere, alll the time!”

She’s right, though. The only friend I ever had who wasn’t creepy with my girlfriends behind my back was gay.

What happens if he says yes? Then you are trapped alone with him. Seems worse lol