• TootSweet@lemmy.world
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    1 month ago

    I propose a replacement trend:

    • “FUCK ICE we had a baby!”
    • “BURN DOWN THE PATRIARCHY and come to my wedding!”
    • “BE GAY DO CRIME it’s my Birthday!!”
    • “ORCAS ATTACK YACHTS let’s have a goddamned LAN party!”
    • “PUNCH A NAZI I got my PhD!”
  • Semisimian@startrek.website
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    1 month ago

    In the immediate aftermath of a traumatic event, this response is completely warranted. After 9/11, it was difficult in America to celebrate anything immediately after. You had to address it. “I know we are all in pain, but my son was born today and I’m happy.”

    The reelection was traumatic for those that remember the insanity of the 1st term. And it ended in a worldwide trauma that we are all still trying to wrap our minds around.

    After a while, though, it can be seen as performative. But let’s give people time to grieve if they need it.

  • JeSuisUnHombre@lemmy.zip
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    1 month ago

    Maybe we should actually try to fix societies problems so that kind of thing no longer feels necessary

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      1 month ago

      “Fix society’s problems”

      You didn’t want to start with something more modest like world peace?

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        1 month ago

        This is the kind of reply that pisses me off.

        You’re either ignorant, being facetious (and bad at it), or just plain a bad actor.

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            1 month ago

            Maybe start by advocating for better education for low-income individuals who have fallen prey to systemic cuts to their social aid programs and are prone to voting against their own interest due to being subject to propaganda their entire lives, thereby building a base of well-informed voters and community members who would then be more well-equipped to tackle and help tackle other issues around them- in their local community, but also on a national level.

            That’s just one thought.

            Your shitty “oh you didn’t wanna start with world peace” jab shows that you are either purposely trying to be an asshole, or you don’t understand that small changes lead to big ones. Obviously we’d start with world peace if that were an option, and I’d imagine it’s the other commenter’s end goal, but you can’t have world peace when it’s built on an inherently violent and broken system. Unless your definition of world peace is genocidal thought policing.

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    If you keep basing your enjoyment of life of what other people say, it doesn’t matter what they say, you’ll be miserable.

    Politics are politics, your feelings are your feelings, keep those apart for your own sanity.

  • Lovable Sidekick@lemmy.world
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    I completely agree, there’s a definite layer of leading with a statement that you’re on the right side of whatever the dominant demographic feels strongly about. It seems like if you aren’t personally suffering enough it means you’re part of the problem. Call it non-poverty guilt?

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      I’d say a chunk of his social circle is men and women like that, this behaviour has white guilt written all over it.

    • the_q@lemmy.zip
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      1 month ago

      Oh absolutely. This reads like a sigma grind set ice bath guy that’s brushing against an actual thought.

  • TimLovesTech (AuDHD)(he/him)@badatbeing.social
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    1 month ago

    Sounds like this person doesn’t understand empathy, which seems to be a common thing on the Right. It’s way easier to say “F them, I got mine” when you have no basic empathy for other humans.

    • TheSambassador@lemmy.world
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      They aren’t talking about empathy, this is something else. It’s about the guilt of feeling happiness in a world that seems like it’s going in the wrong direction.

      That guilt is understandable, but when it becomes so pervasive that you feel the need to express that guilt on every single expression of joy, that seems unhealthy for society, and it makes people much less likely to join a movement.

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        They lack empathy is my point. The person doesn’t understand why the Right fucking everyone over constantly would make people feel bad/sad/depressed. The thought of others doesn’t even occur to them, it’s all about them, how they are the victim.

  • WatDabney@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    I get the impression that when he says “find your own way out,” he actually means “stop caring.”

    • LambeauLeap@sopuli.xyz
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      I take it more as “find a way to come to terms with it” don’t let it ruin your every personal moment